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4 Kids I Must Be Nuts


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This is what I am going through currently;

Teacher files charges vs. kid over gun sketch

A Taunton teacher is pressing criminal charges against a 10-year-old student after she caught the fifth-grader drawing a menacing picture that depicts him, a gun and a figure of her with a “bullet whole” in her head.

But the boy’s furious mother said she plans to fight the charge in court and believes Taunton police and her son’s teacher at the Mulcahey Middle School overreacted to the drawing.

“Bringing charges against a 10-year-old? I’m irate. It’s caused a lot of turmoil to my son,” said Angela Smithson, who has enlisted the help of the American Civil Liberties Union to fight the charge.

The teacher, Karen Boudreau, 44, filed a police report Wednesday after she yanked away from Cullen Smithson a drawing that depicted a girl named “Kailey” as well as a figure named “Mrs. Boudreau,” both with the words “bullet whole” next to them. A stick figure named “ME” is shown next to a gun, according to the report.

Cullen will receive a summons to court to determine if there is enough evidence to proceed with criminal charges, police said.

Boudreau told police she wanted to file charges “in the hopes that the system could help the child,” according to the report, which indicates that Cullen has unspecified “behavioral issues.”

She told police “in this day and age with school shootings, she also has to think about the safety of the remainder of her class.”

Boudreau believed Cullen was angry with her because she forced him to redo math work, according to the report.

Boudreau declined to comment.

Superintendent Arthur Stellar said the decision to seek criminal charges is up to each teacher. “I don’t know what her rationale was,” he said. “The point is the student ought to learn a lesson.”

Smithson said while her son deserved the suspension, he shouldn’t be treated like a criminal. “He did not threaten. He was making a picture for himself. He wasn’t showing anyone. He didn’t go up to the teacher and give it to her. There were no threats.”

Cullen gets good grades and does not get in trouble at school, she said. She also said her son works out his anger through drawing, she said.

Sarah Wunsch, an attorney for the Massachusetts ACLU, called the accusations “appalling.”

“This is sad that a teacher felt she needed to draw a child into the criminal justice system,” she said, adding she believes the charge won’t stand up in court because it doesn’t constitute a threat. “Everybody tells us this is not a kid who has serious problems.”

Experts in school safety generally agree that filing criminal charges against kids should be a last resort.

Dr. Ronald Stephens, head of the National School Safety Center in Westlake Village, Calif., said schools should have a team that includes counselors and police to evaluate perceived threats from children.

“You have a threat assessment team sit down and determine what action should be taken,” he said. “School should be a safe place. . . . Teachers have been targeted and I can understand why they might be gun-shy.”

However, Susan Cole, of Massachusetts Advocates for Children and Harvard Law School, sided with Cullen’s mother.

“The drawing presented a perfect opportunity to address a child’s underlying needs,” she said. “Instead, by isolating, stigmatizing and criminalizing this behavior, what may have been an innocent action or a call for help could become a much bigger problem.”


Posted by Angie at 7:40 PM - 28 Comments   Add a Comment  
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WOW!!!!! Miss ANgie
How is Cullen???
ANd how are you?????????
Know that you are in my prayers and I am thinking of you......
Gloria
 
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by gjwlegs (PM , CC ) on Monday June 16, 2008 @ 8:24 PM




Sounds to me like that teacher really over reacted. I would much rather have a child draw a picture that to act out their anger!! OMG... that poor young man. I hope his parents can make that teacher realize just the harm she has done. I am glad she isn't in our District!!!!

Hugs gal,
Granny
 
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by Granny (PM , CC ) on Monday June 16, 2008 @ 8:40 PM




the teacher is a paraniod asshole that wants to see herself in the news...every kid has thoughts of killing another person at one time or another, very few do, she needs to chill, you will be OK darlin...BC  
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by BigChris (PM , CC ) on Monday June 16, 2008 @ 9:16 PM




I am so sorry this is happening to your family. That teacher certainly overreacted, there is not reason to involve the police in this.  
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by Gina2 (PM , CC ) on Monday June 16, 2008 @ 9:29 PM




I HAVE been wondering where you were!

MY goodness...you and your son ARE the news.
And it's so unfortunate that in this day and age, teachers feel as threatened as they do as to warrant this kind of action against a 10 year old. You just can never be too sure what the child is thinking or their motives so the school system I suppose feels the need to veer on the side of caution. However, I'm wondering if this event is going to traumatize your son.

I'm thinking if I was a ten year old child, an experience such as this would really just rock my world. I'm sure no matter how this resolves itself, you have some work to do with your son in regards to making him feel safe in the school setting again and feel safe with adults in general.

Having been a teacher before (albeit just a preschool teacher) I would have taken Cullen aside and allowed him to bring his anger from the base of his brain (the animal part) to the forebrain (where we do our logical, verbal thinking) It would have gone along way to ease the potentially volatile situation had the teacher let him TALK about his feelings whatever they may have been and however they may have put a crimp in the teacher's ego.

I also would have had to follow school protocol but I hope that part of that protocol would have been to have a meeting with the parent.

It appears to me, he has had issues? And they were being addressed? This time someone (I feel) jumped the gun...perhaps the whole school system? Again tho' with the way the world is now days...it's just...CRAZY!!!

I will DEFINITELY be tuning in to see how this case goes.

This must seem absolutely surreal to you?!

Michele.

 
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by Rubble (PM , CC ) on Monday June 16, 2008 @ 9:30 PM




Oh and here now, a little story about something that happened in my home state a few years ago....

A kindergartener was handcuffed and taken to the Highlands County Jail after acting up in school.

Desre'e Watson's mom says she couldn't believe it when she got the call that her 6-year-old daughter was arrested and jailed on felony charges.

Police say the girl became violent. They say she threw chairs and hit a teacher. But her mom says she's never seen that kind of behavior and believes something must have brought it on.

"I was upset simply fact they handcuffed her and took her to jail, but I just want to find out what really went on,” Lateshia Wilson said.

The 6-year-old faces three charges: disruption of a school function, battery on school employees and resisting arrest. The State Attorney's Office will now decide whether to prosecute or drop the charges.



M.
 
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by Rubble (PM , CC ) on Monday June 16, 2008 @ 9:32 PM




Hi Angie, I am so sorry your are going through this, hell the teacher sounds like a nutter. Here in SA the picture qould have been accepted as a child trying to get his frustrations out in the open. I honestly hope that this comes to an end soon. It is total BS to put a child through this. His issues are just going to get bigger. How is Cullen holding up?
Hugs to you & all the kids
 
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by Tina_sa (PM , CC ) on Tuesday June 17, 2008 @ 1:21 AM




Angie hun, I have seen the awful comments that are floating around on the various websites try not let them get to you, these ppl have no clue who you are or what you have gone through.

It is so sad that a teacher who is over zealous can cause so much heartache, I am so sure there are many other ways this situation could have been handled is she had just stopped to think for a few minutes.


If anything this whole mess could really mess Cullen up. I hope the little guy understands that its not his fault....

As tot he teacher..... what the hell was she thinking, she is supposed to protect this child not make his life a misery


Hun be strong & know we are here for you
 
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by Tina_sa (PM , CC ) on Tuesday June 17, 2008 @ 4:12 AM




Thanks Tina I am holdng up pretty well given the circumstances. I know who I am and who my child is. I brought him to a counselor to be sure this was an isolated event and she agreed.
love ya
 
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by Angie (PM , CC ) on Tuesday June 17, 2008 @ 5:32 AM




It is so sad PR that these kids are living in a world of fear of the past because of all the school violence that has happened they just assuem that every case is the same and do not look at it case by case. love ya  
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by Angie (PM , CC ) on Tuesday June 17, 2008 @ 5:33 AM




I have all ready scheduled counseling for Cullen on my own as he is so upset about the whole thing. I requested a meeting with the teacher and the principal but was told she was too busy to meet with me yet she was not too busy to make a police report, which by the way was faxed to to the Boston Herald with Cullen's name, address, DOB and phone number (I have since filed a complaint with the police department and the office who did it is facing administration at this point)  
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by Angie (PM , CC ) on Tuesday June 17, 2008 @ 5:36 AM




Thank you Gina2 a lot of people have their opinions as they have a right to but a lot of people are coming down on my son and I without knowing us  
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by Angie (PM , CC ) on Tuesday June 17, 2008 @ 5:37 AM




Your support means the world to me Big Chris, love ya  
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by Angie (PM , CC ) on Tuesday June 17, 2008 @ 5:38 AM




The sad part Granny is his parent is me. I am doing all I can to fight this on a daily basis  
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by Angie (PM , CC ) on Tuesday June 17, 2008 @ 5:39 AM




Hi Gloria, Cullen is holding out better then me. He is a very smart boy. He knows what is in his heart and mind and knows this is just a teacher jumping the gun but just to be sure I have a counselor lined up not for the picture but for the madness that happened relating to it. Thank you for your prayers love ya.  
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by Angie (PM , CC ) on Tuesday June 17, 2008 @ 5:40 AM




how on Gods name can they give out Cullens details he is a minor I thought that in the States this was a huge issue regarding the privacy of minors? or do I watch too my TV?  
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by Tina_sa (PM , CC ) on Tuesday June 17, 2008 @ 5:44 AM




Their not suppose to Tina and that's why I marched myself right down to the Chief of police and the Mayor's office who both agreed this was not supposed to be done more so because charges have not been brought at this time it is only up for a show cause hearing which has not been scheduled.
The Chief called me not even an hour after I talked to him and filed the complaint and told me the Officer had been identified who did it and that they are taking administrative measures against him he should be having a hearing tomorrow on this issue.
 
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by Angie (PM , CC ) on Tuesday June 17, 2008 @ 5:55 AM




I am so sorry Angie. But I have been in your shoes. Unfortunately, my child went to juvie. It was painful to us.

I do not know the laws in your state, as I am out west, but I do pray that you can get help. I don't know if your son has any emotion problems or not. I just don't know how to help you. You sound like a real scrapper, so he should be OK. I am glad you child has a strong advocate!!!

I am glad that teacher doesn't work at our school, she would not be very happy with the staff reaction to that kind of action.

Sicum gal!!!

Big Hugs,
 
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by Granny (PM , CC ) on Tuesday June 17, 2008 @ 7:56 PM




So sorry you and your son are going through this Angie. This case will not be prosecuted and charges will be dropped. I saw the drawing in the Boston Herald and this teacher could have and should have taken the situation and handled it in a more professional way. The drawing was not menacing and she could have talk to him and you about it before taking the actions she did. It doesn't say much for how well she is able to handle the needs of children in her classroom in a respectful professional manner.

This will work out okay in the end and justice will prevail. Hang in there and keep the communication lines open with your son. I am sure he is confused about why this is happening. I think him expressing his anger on paper is a very creative and healthy outlet. The teacher obviously over-reacted.

Bear Hugs!
POlarB ;)
 
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by PolarB (PM , CC ) on Tuesday June 17, 2008 @ 7:57 PM




((((((((((((((((((((POLAR B))))))))))))))))))) thank you for your support your kind words means the world to me right now where it feels like the world is against me and my son.
I am actually going to have him continue with the counselor to be able to process this all as I may be his Mother and love him to death but I am not a counselor. Geez I am having a hard time processing it myself never mind a 10 year old/ love ya
 
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by Angie (PM , CC ) on Tuesday June 17, 2008 @ 8:00 PM




((((((((((GRANNY))))))))))))) tears are in my eyes. Cullen has never been suspended, never been arrested and getrs As and Bs in fact in this class where he is supposed to be so troubled and needs emotional helps he is getting an A+, very high MCAS scores and a good effort/conduct grade.
This teacher is attacking us and it is driving me insane
 
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by Angie (PM , CC ) on Tuesday June 17, 2008 @ 8:02 PM




No babe, the teacher is insane. Hang in there. It sounds positive from what you are saying.  
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by Granny (PM , CC ) on Tuesday June 17, 2008 @ 8:08 PM




Ask to see his discipinary file. Every student that has gotten into any kind of trouble has one. IF they tell you he doesn't have one, then where are all the behavior problems??????  
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by Granny (PM , CC ) on Tuesday June 17, 2008 @ 8:20 PM




Ask to see his disciplinary file. Every student that has gotten into any kind of trouble has one. IF they tell you he doesn't have one, then where are all the behavior problems??????  
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by Granny (PM , CC ) on Tuesday June 17, 2008 @ 8:20 PM




Thanks Granny love ya  
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by Angie (PM , CC ) on Tuesday June 17, 2008 @ 8:25 PM




I all ready thought of that Granny it will be typed out and delivered tomorrow. love ya  
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by Angie (PM , CC ) on Tuesday June 17, 2008 @ 9:14 PM




OMGZOR!!
Is this foreal?
I used to live in Tuaton I never heard this story b4?
what kid on this planet especially a 10yr old hasn't drawn a war picture or some sort of violence?
 
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by TATTD (PM , CC ) on Sunday July 27, 2008 @ 11:44 AM




Unfortunately it is real. There was major overkill on this one (no pun intended). Thanks for your support though.  
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by Angie (PM , CC ) on Sunday July 27, 2008 @ 1:05 PM


 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

   
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